I’ve never been one for “workplace drama” and I feel silly sharing this story, because I thought I was at a point in my life where I wouldn’t have to deal with petty workplace shenanigans and jealousy. I was completely shocked and blind-sighted, but the beauty is, it taught me an important lesson when it comes to the value of my time and what it TRULY means to make a living…
I recall going into a tedious job, chill and in a great mood, but others would actually ask, “Why are you so happy?!” I consider that a very rude question. Am I not supposed to smile and be happy at work, because you are miserable??? My laid back, stay to myself demeanor, always attracted the wrong attention. Some of my fellow co-workers shared with me, that they felt I didn’t “like” them, simply because I chose to sit and eat my lunch by myself. I hate talking when I’m eating! My break is for ME, why do I have to sit with you and socialize??? I was sitting at my cubicle beside you for hours already!
I’ve never felt the need to tear down a co-worker, in order to make myself look better to the higher ups. I always dressed, talked and walked like myself at the office. The “peer pressure” in the corporate world couldn’t change me. I never felt the need to suck up to the boss in order to be elevated to a better position. I’ve heard people say, “Oh that’s just the way it is in the office” and I think, well if that’s the way it is, then I choose to NOT participate. The water-cooler talk never interested me either. I chose to work from home for YEARS because I couldn’t swallow the cut- throat nature of the corporate world. People used to ask me if I ever got lonely working from home on my own, and my response was NO! I loved the peace and quiet, it’s way easier to focus on work without gossip and chatter an ear shot away. I considered it torture trying to focus, while hearing my co-worker whine and complain about her boyfriend’s mother. It was even worse when I tried my best to pretend I didn’t hear a thing, and she’d try to pull me into the conversation. Then I had to answer WHY I didn’t feel like talking, which hurt her feelings, or made her dislike or resent me, when my intentions were purely to do my job! Dealing with tension in the office is very annoying, because you KNOW you’re going to have to face these people the next day. It’s as though they are family you are forced to deal with:(….. There’s more, stay tuned for my next post.
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2 thoughts on “Workplace Shenanigans Story/Rant…..”
I totally feel you on this one. I couldn’t empathize with you more. People fail to look critically at themselves often times and realize just how self centered they really are. Their wanting your affirmation is really their own insecurity…and IT IS SOOOOO COMMON!!!!
Well put Matthew! That’s exactly what it is. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🙂